YOUTH PASTOR ARRESTED FOR SEXUAL ASSAULT

35 YEAR OLD WESLEY RYAN BLACKBURN OF NEW PARIS A YOUTH PASTOR FOR THE FAITH BRETHREN BIBLE CHURCH IN NEW PARIS HAS BEEN CHARGED WITH 84 COUNTS OF STATUTORY SEXUAL ASSAULT & 86 COUNTS OF INDECENT ASSAULT. ACCORDING TO AN AFFIDAVIT OF PROBABLE CAUSE. BLACKBURN HAD A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH A 15 YEAR OLD FEMALE FROM THE CHURCH. THE 15 YEAR OLD GIRL IS PREGNANT WITH BLACKBURN’S BABY. POLICE MET WITH PASTOR JAMES ESPENSHADE WHO TOLD POLICE HE HAD BEEN CONTACTED BY LANA BLACKBURN THE WIFE OF WESLEY. WHO TOLD THE PASTOR HER HUSBAND WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO ATTENDED THE CHURCH.

POLICE SPOKE WITH WESLEY BLACKBURN WHO WAS CLEANING OUT HIS OFFICE AT THE CHURCH WHEN POLICE ARRIVED. BLACKBURN TOLD POLICE HE TEACHES SUNDAY SCHOOL AT THE CHURCH SINCE 2009. AND HAD MET THE GIRL IN IN NOVEMBER OF 2014. HE ADMITTED THAT HE KNOW THE GIRL WAS PREGNANT WITH HIS BABY. POLICE TOOK HIM INTO CUSTODY AT THE CHURCH. POLICE THEN INTERVIEWED LANA BLACKBURN WHO TOLD POLICE HER HUSBAND HAD ASKED HER FOR A DIVORCE ON OCTOBER 5. HE TOLD HIS WIFE HE DID NOT LOVE HER ANYMORE AND THAT HE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO LANA HAD ALSO KNOWN FROM THE CHURCH.

WESLEY HAD TOLD HIS WIFE HE HAD COME UP WITH A PLAN TO GET PERMISSION FROM THE GIRL’S PARENTS TO MARRY HER. POLICE AGAIN SPOKE WITH WESLEY BLACKBURN. POLICE ASKED BLACKBURN HOW MANY TIMES DID HIM AND THE GIRL HAD SEX. HE DID NOT KNOW. ALL HE KNEW WAS THEY STARTED HAVING SEX IN MARCH OF 2016. THEY HAD SEX A FEW TIMES A WEEK. THEY WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF BEFORE THEY BEGAN HAVING SEX. BLACKBURN WANTED IT KNOWN THAT THEY NEVER HAD SEX IN THE CHURCH.

HE IS IN THE BEDFORD COUNTY JAIL ON $200,000 BAIL

4 comments

  1. Though they know God’s decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them. By giving your approval you are no better than the person that committed the crime. Its not like the individual was found not guilty of this act. You sir are a moron, and wherever you go I hope that your church is full of criminals for you to forgive. Put the thief in charge of collecting the offerings and the child molester in charge of Sunday School. Wherever you wind up please let us know so we don’t go there.

  2. this area has a heavy spirit of GOSSIP… judgemental talk.
    oppression , etc….pointing fingers. This guy and gal made a mistake. FORGIVE AND MOVE FORWARD .
    Too much disvord here.. leaving the area
    GOD IS LOVE…THE MOST IMPORTANT FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT

  3. Matthew 18:6
    But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
    Galatians 5:19-21
    Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
    Matthew 7:17-27
    So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits. “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. …
    Romans 1:28-32
    And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they know God’s decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.

  4. As a lay pastor, things do happen in today’s society with all the stress, frustrations, and people setting out to do harm in gossip to one another. I have just moved here, and I see so much gossip inside the small community churches. But, here they do not address it…they leave it go and are very passive here. If you do not address something inside the church, it will continue. And, I am seeing when death happens in this county how others set out to hurt that person even more or desire to hear negative gossip.
    The bible states in Proverbs-“Beware of a Tale Bearer” a go between, etc…

    Proverbs 20:19
    Verse Concepts
    He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, Therefore do not associate with a gossip.

    Psalm 34:13 – Keep your tongue from evil And your lips from speaking deceit.

    Proverbs 11:13 – He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, But he who is trustworthy conceals a matter.

    Psalm 141:3 – Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips.
    THE FOLLOWING SHOULD MAKE YOU THINK!!!
    Many people consider gossip to be a harmless pastime.
    What about you?
    “My Name Is Gossip. I have no respect for justice. I maim without killing. I break hearts and ruin lives. I am cunning and malicious and gather strength with age.
    The more I am quoted the more I am believed. I flourish at every level of society. My victims are helpless. They cannot protect themselves against me because I have no name and no face.
    To track me down is impossible. The harder you try, the more elusive I become. I am nobody’s friend. Once I tarnish a reputation, it is never the same. I topple governments and ruin marriages. I ruin careers and cause sleepless nights, heartache and indigestion. I spawn suspicion and generate grief.
    I make innocent people cry in their pillows. Even my name hisses. I AM CALLED GOSSIP.”
    This eye-opening poem from an unknown author says a lot about the damage done through gossip. What about the famous phrase we all have heard. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me”? In our hearts, we know this is not true, even though it may be a useful attitude to take when insulted by others. Reciting those words does not take the hurt away.
    Words do tremendous damage. So unless you’ve been a victim of violent crime or of a major illness or something else catastrophic, your deepest pains have probably come from hurtful words.

    WORDS HAVE GREAT POWER

    Words carry great power. God created the world through His words. He said, “Let there be light” and there was light. Humans also use words in producing great novels that move us and music that warms our hearts. Writers put much thought into the right selection of words so their books or songs will sell.

    We listen and communicate words every day that either lift us up or bring us down. Powerful, positive words can offer great healing, while negative words contain great destructive power.

    Whenever we talk negatively about people or listen to someone else talk negatively about others, we unleash that harmful power. So how do we use this power of words with others? Do our words lift and inspire, or do they destroy? Are they words of truth? Do we disclose truth in a hurtful way? If someone paid us 10 cents for every kind word we said about people, and collected five cents for every unkind word, would we be rich or poor?

    Gossip and slander can ruin reputations, families, break up marriages, separate friends, destroy communities and, yes, even divide churches. Knowing that gossip is so destructive, why do we do it?

    WHY DO WE GOSSIP?

    We often gossip to feel good about ourselves. We get an ego boost from others’ sins and mistakes. To gossip makes us feel superior to the person we are talking about. (Pride)

    We also gossip to draw people into our own hurt and anger. We want others to side with us so we must tell our side of the story. Then our friends repeat the story to their friends and on and on it goes. Even if you say the truth, it does not justify unnecessarily passing on hurtful information about someone.

    FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS

    Gossip is a six-letter word that produces emotions of excitement, pain or guilt, depending on if you are the gossiper, or if you are the one being gossiped about.

    Excitement comes from gossip because it is human nature to want to hear dirt on others and repeat it. Look at all the tabloids sold at the grocery counters filled with dirt about the rich and famous. It is fun to read and listen to gossip about others until it is about us. Proverbs 20:19 says, “He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.”

    We should realize that participating in negative conversations harms us spiritually; it creates confusion that can lead to deception.

    Pain comes when we are on the receiving end of the gossip trail. Speaking ill of others is particularly bad because words, once uttered, can never be recalled. Consider the following story illustrating this point.

    There was a man in a small town who went around slandering a minister. One day, feeling bad about what he had done, he went to the minister to ask for forgiveness.

    “Take a pillow,” said the minister, “cut it up and shake out the feathers.” The man did as he was told and then he returned to the minister hoping to now be forgiven.

    “First,” said the minister, “go collect all the feathers.”

    “But that’s impossible,” said the man. “They’ve gone everywhere.”

    “It’s as impossible to repair the damage done by your words as it is to recover all the feathers,” said the minister.

    President Reagan’s first Labor Secretary, Raymond Donavan, resigned from his post after numerous rumors that he’d done wrong. After spending more than a million dollars in legal fees to defend himself, Donovan was cleared of all charges. Coming out of the courtroom to talk to reporters, he asked: “Where do I go to get my reputation back?”

    Gossip also hurts the gossiper. According to psychiatrist Antonio Wood, when you speak ill of someone, you alienate yourself from that person. Say bad things about many people and your words will separate you from them.

    Guilt is an emotion we feel when we know in our hearts that it is wrong to slander and talk about someone behind his or her back. Have you ever tried to look someone in the eye after you have talked about him or her behind his or her back?

    Guilt also comes when we don’t follow the biblical principle that says, Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.” (Matthew 18:15)

    Gossip may be fun for a moment, but in the end it will only produce hurt, guilt and pain.

    HOW CAN WE AVOID GOSSIPING?

    · Seek a repentant and clean heart from God so you’ll have the power to resist talking negatively about others. Take a look at the attitudes you hold and the comments you make. Examine why you are tempted to speak negatively and pray for God to give you the strength to confront and overcome those temptations. Confess the times you’ve gossiped or criticized in the past, and invite God to transform you. Release any pride or fear that is obstructing you from making the changes you would like, and be open to God’s correction and guidance.

    · Pray for people you have hurt—either purposely or inadvertently by speaking negatively about them. Ask God to heal them. Also pray for people who have hurt you in the past through their negative words about you. Forgive them and ask God to let them be aware of His loving presence with them.

    · Pray for God to give you wisdom in such situations. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.”

    · We can ask God to help us resist being pulled into negative conversations. How can we do this?

    · When someone approaches us and begins talking negatively about someone, we can try to determine the speaker’s motivation and encourage accountability by asking questions such as, “Is this something I need to hear about?” “Who told you this information?” “Have you spoken to those people who are directly involved with this situation?” and “Before you share any further, what are you expecting from me?”

    · Use powerful positive words to heal when confronted with destructive, negative words. Respond to gossip or criticism with encouraging words about the person being talked about. As Ephesians 4:29 explains, ” (Ephesians 4:29) “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”

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